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The Shoes Beside Her Bed
These aren’t my mother’s shoes. But they remind me of them. When my mother was dying, she chose to spend her final days in the downstairs bedroom. It was easier. Close to the bathroom. Close to the heart of the house. At some point, she stopped going upstairs to her room. I don’t remember exactly when. What I do remember is going back up there after she died. I stood in the doorway and just took it all in. Everything was exactly as she left it. The room felt full… and empty
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May 141 min read


Why Childhood Conversations About Death Shape Us
Growing up, I don’t remember having many meaningful conversations around death, dying, or grief. And that’s not shade, it’s just the...
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Aug 19, 20252 min read


Memorable Encounters
A couple of months ago, I met a gentleman during an Uber ride, and we struck up an interesting conversation. It began with him sharing a...
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Jul 6, 20244 min read


Honoring Loved Ones: A Personal Reflection
A day after what would have been my mother's 69th birthday, I find myself contemplating the various ways we honor our loved ones,...
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Mar 18, 20241 min read


The Healing Power of Communication: A Death Doula's Perspective
Today, I want to delve into a topic that resonates deeply with my role as a death doula - communication. While often seen as a conveyance...
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Aug 23, 20231 min read


Welcome to My Blog!
My name is Neiasha Russell, and for years I have been captivated by the profound and transformative nature of death and dying. I realized...
NDKR
Jul 11, 20231 min read
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